Tuesday, January 10, 2017
Friday, December 9, 2011
Friendship Text Messages.
This is a Collection of frienship Messages collected over the web. You can send some to your freinds to appreciate them for being there for you.
---->Friendship is not a Game to Play
Friendship is not a game to play, It is not a word to say, It doesn't start on March and ends on May, It is tomorrow, yesterday, today and everyday.
---->Moon said to me to leave your friend
Moon said to me, if your friend is not messaging you why don't you leave your friend.I looked at moon and said does your sky ever leave you when you don't shine.
---->Age appears to be best in some things
Age appears to be best in some things. Old wood best to burn. Old books best to read. Old rice best to eat and old friends best to keep
---->God picked up a flower
God picked up a flower and dipped it in a DEW, lovingly touched it which turned in to u, and the he gifted to me and said, THIS FRIEND IS 4U.
---->To live a life
To live a life i need heartbeat, 2 have heartbeat i need a heart, 2 have heart i need happiness, to have happiness i need a friend, and 4 a friend i need U.ALWAYS
---->True friends are like morning
True friends are like mornings, u cant have them the whole day, but u can be sure, they will be there when u wake up tomorrow, next year and forever.
----> Make 1000's friends
Its not an achievement to make 1000's friends in a year, but an achievement is when you make a friend for 1000's years.
----> 6 rules to be HAPPY
6 rules to be HAPPY: Free your heart from hatred; Free your mind from worries; Live simply; Expect less; Give more & Always have ME as UR FRIEND
----> Never abandon old friends.
Never abandon old friends. They are hard to replace. Friendships is like wine: it gets BETTER as it grows OLDER. Just like us... I get BETTER, you get OLDER.
----> I can't afford a precious FRIEND like YOU!!!
GOD is so wise that he never created FRIENDS with price tags, Because..... if He did, I can't afford a precious FRIEND like YOU!!!
---->As long as we have memories, yesterday remains;
As long as we have memories, yesterday remains; as long as we have hope, tomorrow awaits. As long as we have Friendship, each day is never a waste.
---->I'll always value you deep within my heart!
Whatever you see as the truth; whatever you see as lies, remember that true friendship never dies, although we may change & drift apart, I'll always value u deep within my heart!
----> If friends were flowers
If friends were flowers I would not pick you! I'll let you grow in the garden & cultivate you with love and care so that I can keep you as a friend 4ever!!
---->Your validity of being my friend is going 2 b expired
Your validity of being my friend is going to be expired today,please recharge your friendship immediately by delivering 4-5 sweet & cool messages.So hurry now!
----> Friendship is sweet when it's new
Friendship is sweet when it's new, Sweeter when its true, but sweetest when its u. When God gave friends he tried 2 b fair! When I got u, I got more than my share!
Many more are yet to come!
---->Friendship is not a Game to Play
Friendship is not a game to play, It is not a word to say, It doesn't start on March and ends on May, It is tomorrow, yesterday, today and everyday.
---->Moon said to me to leave your friend
Moon said to me, if your friend is not messaging you why don't you leave your friend.I looked at moon and said does your sky ever leave you when you don't shine.
---->Age appears to be best in some things
Age appears to be best in some things. Old wood best to burn. Old books best to read. Old rice best to eat and old friends best to keep
---->God picked up a flower
God picked up a flower and dipped it in a DEW, lovingly touched it which turned in to u, and the he gifted to me and said, THIS FRIEND IS 4U.
---->To live a life
To live a life i need heartbeat, 2 have heartbeat i need a heart, 2 have heart i need happiness, to have happiness i need a friend, and 4 a friend i need U.ALWAYS
---->True friends are like morning
True friends are like mornings, u cant have them the whole day, but u can be sure, they will be there when u wake up tomorrow, next year and forever.
----> Make 1000's friends
Its not an achievement to make 1000's friends in a year, but an achievement is when you make a friend for 1000's years.
----> 6 rules to be HAPPY
6 rules to be HAPPY: Free your heart from hatred; Free your mind from worries; Live simply; Expect less; Give more & Always have ME as UR FRIEND
----> Never abandon old friends.
Never abandon old friends. They are hard to replace. Friendships is like wine: it gets BETTER as it grows OLDER. Just like us... I get BETTER, you get OLDER.
----> I can't afford a precious FRIEND like YOU!!!
GOD is so wise that he never created FRIENDS with price tags, Because..... if He did, I can't afford a precious FRIEND like YOU!!!
---->As long as we have memories, yesterday remains;
As long as we have memories, yesterday remains; as long as we have hope, tomorrow awaits. As long as we have Friendship, each day is never a waste.
---->I'll always value you deep within my heart!
Whatever you see as the truth; whatever you see as lies, remember that true friendship never dies, although we may change & drift apart, I'll always value u deep within my heart!
----> If friends were flowers
If friends were flowers I would not pick you! I'll let you grow in the garden & cultivate you with love and care so that I can keep you as a friend 4ever!!
---->Your validity of being my friend is going 2 b expired
Your validity of being my friend is going to be expired today,please recharge your friendship immediately by delivering 4-5 sweet & cool messages.So hurry now!
----> Friendship is sweet when it's new
Friendship is sweet when it's new, Sweeter when its true, but sweetest when its u. When God gave friends he tried 2 b fair! When I got u, I got more than my share!
Many more are yet to come!
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Teens Resolving Conflicts
Teenage is the most sensitive phase of a
person's life. The developments that take place during the teenage years
make the adolescents ready to face the real world. The crossroad that
they have just left behind and the future world that is beckoning them
makes them confused when they have to decide the right course of action
for themselves. They can neither behave like a child, nor like an adult.
Teenagers often find it difficult to cope with the mass of physical, psychological and behavioral changes they have to adjust and adapt to. This in turn threatens their personalities. Students resolving conflict from different parts of the country often have the experience of being either abused or of abusing. Parents of students resolving conflict often find themselves utterly puzzled when they try to find the best technique to help their children. But, they can find some solace in the participation of a large number of activists and organizations to help the students resolving conflict.
Teenagers are usually known to be idealistic, impulsive, short-tempered and with very little patience. Students resolving conflict are known to seek solution to their conflicts in fighting, which often turns violent. Because of this, they can not formulate any positive solution to the problem, and also find themselves mentally or physically bruised. This leads to lack of concentration, a lack of confidence, worsening parent-child and peer relationships that ultimately lead to a troubled life and poor performance.
There are ways to help the students resolving conflict. Keeping their impulsive nature in mind, it is advisable to seek peaceful, mutually beneficial resolutions to their conflicts. An argumentative attitude worsens the situation. Listening to each other's explanations patiently and to learn to respect differences are vital in this respect.
Students resolving conflict should not turn their backs on the problem. It does not help if one avoids the situation. Face the challenge and tackle it without giving yourself to aggression. Share your common, favorite things with each other. If a situation seems to go out of control, don't try to resolve it hastily. Cooperate with your peers if they want to seek workable solutions. Don't abuse or insult anyone by calling names, especially, keep away from blaming others. Understand the perspective of others and when a conflict is unavoidable, look inside yourself to rectify your own faults, if any.
There are ways to resolve conflicts and fights if they come around.
Trying not to have fights and conflicts in friendship is also worth a try but when they do come, be sure to take care of them fast enough to save the friendship.
Teenagers often find it difficult to cope with the mass of physical, psychological and behavioral changes they have to adjust and adapt to. This in turn threatens their personalities. Students resolving conflict from different parts of the country often have the experience of being either abused or of abusing. Parents of students resolving conflict often find themselves utterly puzzled when they try to find the best technique to help their children. But, they can find some solace in the participation of a large number of activists and organizations to help the students resolving conflict.
Teenagers are usually known to be idealistic, impulsive, short-tempered and with very little patience. Students resolving conflict are known to seek solution to their conflicts in fighting, which often turns violent. Because of this, they can not formulate any positive solution to the problem, and also find themselves mentally or physically bruised. This leads to lack of concentration, a lack of confidence, worsening parent-child and peer relationships that ultimately lead to a troubled life and poor performance.
There are ways to help the students resolving conflict. Keeping their impulsive nature in mind, it is advisable to seek peaceful, mutually beneficial resolutions to their conflicts. An argumentative attitude worsens the situation. Listening to each other's explanations patiently and to learn to respect differences are vital in this respect.
Students resolving conflict should not turn their backs on the problem. It does not help if one avoids the situation. Face the challenge and tackle it without giving yourself to aggression. Share your common, favorite things with each other. If a situation seems to go out of control, don't try to resolve it hastily. Cooperate with your peers if they want to seek workable solutions. Don't abuse or insult anyone by calling names, especially, keep away from blaming others. Understand the perspective of others and when a conflict is unavoidable, look inside yourself to rectify your own faults, if any.
There are ways to resolve conflicts and fights if they come around.
Conflict is present in all intimate relationships. Whether
conflict is resolved constructively or acted out destructively is what
determines its impact on the relationship. The following suggestions are
designed to help couples resolve conflict by teaching them how to fight
fairly.
o Create a "circuit breaker" that will prevent fights from escalating out of control. Establish a special code word (e.g. "time-out!") that signals a "cease fire." Even a comical word can break the cycle of tension. If you feel out of control, you will probably need to temporarily remove yourself from the situation. If so, make a definite time and place to continue the conversation.
o Avoid "letting it all hang out." Tragically, cruel statements made in the heat of battle tend to be long remembered and seldom forgiven. Anger research demonstrates that venting aggression doesn't resolve anger, but merely rehearses it. Repetitive explosions in the service of "telling it like it is" may push partners even further away and rarely alter the circumstances that are making one feel angry in the first place.
o Identify the feelings underlying your anger. Anger often functions as a protective shield against feelings that are more difficult to express, such as sadness, powerlessness or a fear of intimacy.
o Avoid the tendency to chronically complain. Many friends seem unable to distinguish between ordinary life events and issues that really matter. Before complaining, reflect on questions such as: "Is my friend's behavior really bad for our relationship?" This allows one to see the Big Picture rather than the Little Behavior.
o Cultivate an attitude of respect. The word respect is derived from respicere, a Greek word which means "the willingness to look again." Our willingness to see our partners as human beings who deserve to be treated with dignity and kindness is basic to a healthy relationship. Without this respect, a healthy relationship isn't possible.
o Change yourself and your relationship will change. Most power struggles are rooted in trying to get someone else to change. This battle usually becomes the biggest obstacle to change and healing. As an experiment, focus on what you can do differently instead of on what you feel your partner "should" be doing.
o Remember that timing is everything. Many destructive fights occur when one partner feels "ambushed." Before unloading on your partner, try an approach such as: "Something has come up for me - is now a good time to talk about it?" This can create an appropriate context for dialogue at a time when you are both open to it.
o Beware of the ABC's inherent in most arguments - Accusation, Blame, and Coercion. Consider changing your focus from asking "Who's to blame here?" to "How do we get on the same team?" Speak about your experience and feelings. For example: "I feel upset that you criticized me in front of your family." "I" statements promote self-responsibility and avoid the blaming quality of "You!" statements.
o While your Friend is talking listen as non-defensively as you can. If you're already preparing your rebuttal in your head, you aren't really listening.
o Be willing to acknowledge and validate your partner's feelings. Many times in couples work, this is the point where one Friend turns to me and says: "But I don't agree with what she's saying!" Validating your partner doesn't mean that they are right, or that you agree with them. It simply means that you are demonstrating your willingness to understand. Use reflective listening statements such as: "Let me see if I understand you - I hear you saying that...." This will allow your friend to feel heard and ensures that you understand, rather than assume, what is being shared.
o Avoid trying to fix the problem immediately. Make sure both of you fully understand the issue before attempting a "quick fix." Communication is a process that takes time.
o Ask clearly and directly for what you want - and wait! Individuals who are not experienced in assertive communication have a tendency to prematurely "erase" their request - "Oh, forget it - I knew it was too much to ask." Give your friend time to internally process the request, even if it means coming back to it in a few days. You then have a better chance of reaching a lasting agreement that will work for both of you. It would be naïve to suggest that these skills will be mastered by reading one article - it takes practice. However, making a positive intention to "fight fairly" and then taking a simple step, such as creating a weekly couples meeting, can lead to immediate improvement. Finally, if you find yourself getting stuck, consider seeking short-term help from a counselor with specific expertise in friend's communication and conflict resolution. Great relationships are worth fighting for.
o Create a "circuit breaker" that will prevent fights from escalating out of control. Establish a special code word (e.g. "time-out!") that signals a "cease fire." Even a comical word can break the cycle of tension. If you feel out of control, you will probably need to temporarily remove yourself from the situation. If so, make a definite time and place to continue the conversation.
o Avoid "letting it all hang out." Tragically, cruel statements made in the heat of battle tend to be long remembered and seldom forgiven. Anger research demonstrates that venting aggression doesn't resolve anger, but merely rehearses it. Repetitive explosions in the service of "telling it like it is" may push partners even further away and rarely alter the circumstances that are making one feel angry in the first place.
o Identify the feelings underlying your anger. Anger often functions as a protective shield against feelings that are more difficult to express, such as sadness, powerlessness or a fear of intimacy.
o Avoid the tendency to chronically complain. Many friends seem unable to distinguish between ordinary life events and issues that really matter. Before complaining, reflect on questions such as: "Is my friend's behavior really bad for our relationship?" This allows one to see the Big Picture rather than the Little Behavior.
o Cultivate an attitude of respect. The word respect is derived from respicere, a Greek word which means "the willingness to look again." Our willingness to see our partners as human beings who deserve to be treated with dignity and kindness is basic to a healthy relationship. Without this respect, a healthy relationship isn't possible.
o Change yourself and your relationship will change. Most power struggles are rooted in trying to get someone else to change. This battle usually becomes the biggest obstacle to change and healing. As an experiment, focus on what you can do differently instead of on what you feel your partner "should" be doing.
o Remember that timing is everything. Many destructive fights occur when one partner feels "ambushed." Before unloading on your partner, try an approach such as: "Something has come up for me - is now a good time to talk about it?" This can create an appropriate context for dialogue at a time when you are both open to it.
o Beware of the ABC's inherent in most arguments - Accusation, Blame, and Coercion. Consider changing your focus from asking "Who's to blame here?" to "How do we get on the same team?" Speak about your experience and feelings. For example: "I feel upset that you criticized me in front of your family." "I" statements promote self-responsibility and avoid the blaming quality of "You!" statements.
o While your Friend is talking listen as non-defensively as you can. If you're already preparing your rebuttal in your head, you aren't really listening.
o Be willing to acknowledge and validate your partner's feelings. Many times in couples work, this is the point where one Friend turns to me and says: "But I don't agree with what she's saying!" Validating your partner doesn't mean that they are right, or that you agree with them. It simply means that you are demonstrating your willingness to understand. Use reflective listening statements such as: "Let me see if I understand you - I hear you saying that...." This will allow your friend to feel heard and ensures that you understand, rather than assume, what is being shared.
o Avoid trying to fix the problem immediately. Make sure both of you fully understand the issue before attempting a "quick fix." Communication is a process that takes time.
o Ask clearly and directly for what you want - and wait! Individuals who are not experienced in assertive communication have a tendency to prematurely "erase" their request - "Oh, forget it - I knew it was too much to ask." Give your friend time to internally process the request, even if it means coming back to it in a few days. You then have a better chance of reaching a lasting agreement that will work for both of you. It would be naïve to suggest that these skills will be mastered by reading one article - it takes practice. However, making a positive intention to "fight fairly" and then taking a simple step, such as creating a weekly couples meeting, can lead to immediate improvement. Finally, if you find yourself getting stuck, consider seeking short-term help from a counselor with specific expertise in friend's communication and conflict resolution. Great relationships are worth fighting for.
Trying not to have fights and conflicts in friendship is also worth a try but when they do come, be sure to take care of them fast enough to save the friendship.
Friday, October 21, 2011
Friendship Quotes!
There are alot of issues concerning friendship to deal with, but let's start by analyzing some inspired quotes on friendship. Let's start with Your Own view of anyone of the following Quotes.
Please be paitent; this page may take time to load due to our wealth of quotes! :)
"True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost."
- Charles Caleb Colton
"Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."
- Anais Nin
"My friends are my estate."
- Emily Dickinson
"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."
"A friend is one who walks in when others walk out"
-Walter Winchell
"A friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else."
- Len Wein - Sent by Paulo Louro
"A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart, and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words."
- Sent by Donna Roberts
"A friend is one who believes in you when you have ceased to believe in yourself."
- Sent by Lysha
"Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow.
Don't walk behind me, I may not lead.
Walk beside me and be my friend."
- Albert Camus (also attributed to Maimonidies). Sent by clovers
"A hug is worth a thousand words. A friend is worth more."
- Sent by Jasmine Fitzwilliam
"Everyone is a friend, until they prove otherwise."
- sent by Steve
"Every person is a new door to a different world."
- from movie "Six Degrees of Seperation" (thanks to Steve's Famous Quotes)
"It takes a long time to grow an old friend."
- by John Leonard (thanks to Steve's Famous Quotes)
Thanks majorly to Friendship.com .
Now let's start the discussion!
Please be paitent; this page may take time to load due to our wealth of quotes! :)
"True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost."
- Charles Caleb Colton
"Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."
- Anais Nin
"My friends are my estate."
- Emily Dickinson
"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."
"A friend is one who walks in when others walk out"
-Walter Winchell
"A friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else."
- Len Wein - Sent by Paulo Louro
"A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart, and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words."
- Sent by Donna Roberts
"A friend is one who believes in you when you have ceased to believe in yourself."
- Sent by Lysha
"Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow.
Don't walk behind me, I may not lead.
Walk beside me and be my friend."
- Albert Camus (also attributed to Maimonidies). Sent by clovers
"A hug is worth a thousand words. A friend is worth more."
- Sent by Jasmine Fitzwilliam
"Everyone is a friend, until they prove otherwise."
- sent by Steve
"Every person is a new door to a different world."
- from movie "Six Degrees of Seperation" (thanks to Steve's Famous Quotes)
"It takes a long time to grow an old friend."
- by John Leonard (thanks to Steve's Famous Quotes)
Thanks majorly to Friendship.com .
Now let's start the discussion!
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
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